I’m back in America. And it’s weird. Just… weird.
My can of Diet Coke is so big.
There’s grass. And a backyard. And sprinklers.
It’s cold outside. The air is clear. There aren’t any dust storms.
People drive on the right side of the road. And where are all the cows?
I’m so confused!
I’ve been back in the US for a week and I’m slowly adjusting to life stateside. Just like you can’t fully prepare for the quirks and challenges of daily life in another country, you can’t really prepare for the feeling of coming back home. I think this is especially true for those of us who travel to places where daily life is so different from the US. It’s disorienting. I think that’s the best word I can come up with to describe it. What makes it especially disorienting is that you don’t expect it to feel that way. I’ve lived here my entire life. Why should it be disorienting to be home? But it is.
It certainly doesn’t help that I’m missing Delhi quite a bit. I long for my commute to school or a quick trip to the market. Please don’t misunderstand. I love my home and I missed it like crazy when I was in India. It’s unfortunate that we can’t live in two places at the same time. Get the best of both worlds. Yes, the world is small. But it still takes 15 hours and quite a but of money to fly half way around it. Not exactly a feat to be accomplished every few days or even months.
I’ll have to settle for memories and start making plans for my next trip. In the meantime, though, I have to adjust to daily life with big cars, orderly traffic, and coffee instead of chai. So how do I get Delhi out of my system enough to start living life again in the US?
I was lucky enough to get to spend a few days at my family’s cabin (a.k.a. “the camp”) on Loon Lake in Chestertown, NY. Being so far away from cities and traffic allowed me to hit the reset button in a big way. I don’t know why. Maybe because it’s so quiet here. Or maybe it’s because the camp is my absolute favorite place on Earth and always will be. A combination of home and escape, the house is almost like a family member itself. The perfect place to get excited about the next adventure while still reflecting on the last one. It’s also a not a bad place to sleep away the jet lag.
So my advice for the world traveler returning home is this: I think the best way to re-orient yourself to life back home is simply to get in touch with all those things that keep you grounded. Family. Friends. Home. Routine. For me, the time in Delhi was a different reality. A different (and amazing) time in my life that I’ll never forget. But now I need my grounding forces to guide me and bring me back to my current reality.
Though my can of Diet Coke still seems too big.